Please use my face as a seat. You will not wear panties around the house A simple and effective rule. While how you act on kinks is negotiable, remember that ongoing, enthusiastic consent is not Submiasive it's essential. How would you feel if I sucked on your fingers? How would you feel about handcuffing me to the bed?
Honest communication Communication is key in this type of relationship, as in every other. Imagine if a grown man would hit you as hard as he could, just because you trusted him and you let him do it?
If you have established certain rules, be sure to stick to them. Your partner wants to fall in love with your human side, too; the one who knows how to have mercy and the one who is willing to bend the rules and give lighter punishments. You shall provide sex upon command To let the dominant really feel his power, rules like these are needed. By Caroline Colvin May 29, If being blindfolded, getting handcuffed, or simply surrendering control during sex makes you tingle, you're probably the submissive partner in a BDSM dynamic.
The only difference here is that there are strict rules established that you have to follow in order to keep both parties happy and satisfied just like in 50 Shades Of Grey.
The dominant, or "dom," exerts power over the sub, or dominates. The sub has to know to whom they belong so that the dom never takes their loyalty into question.
Trust The only way to be trusted is to show trustworthiness first. That why you should, too. Enjoy Why are you doing all of this? Just imagine if you came home from work with a friend and Submissige wife was sitting on the floor in front of the door completely naked.
Understand each other, communicate, and be gentle. Start it as with every other standard relationship.
I want you to run your hands up and down my body while I'm tied up. Because of the fact that BDSM can get a bit dangerous in-between the sheets, make sure to have a safe word that your sub will ned so you know that they need to stop. Final Thoughts I know that most of these things might sound coontrol and perhaps even scary, but believe me, they can be very romantic and pleasant for both sides of the relationship.
Open-mindedness As mentioned before, keeping an open mind really is crucial in this type of relationship. If you refuse to talk about your wants and needs, then the relationship is doomed to fail without a doubt. So, if Sumbissive give it a try, you may just fall in love with this type of lifestyle.
The submissive partner has to please their dominant at any conrol time of the day. I speak, you obey Whatever the dominant says he wants, he gets. Also, you need to be open-minded to try out new things that you might not have liked or heed before. You both do it in order to have some fun and to enjoy your relationship on a whole new level.
But making their master proud actually has a deeper meaning. Demands obedience Traits and roles of the submissive While the dom is all about being in control, the sub enjoys being controlled and loves to please their partner in every way possible.
Health The dominant-submissive relationship requires both partners to be mentally and physically healthy. Remember that this is not a part of your role. I can't wait for you to push me against the wall and make out with me.
If yes, invest in your communication and show your partner that they can be heard at any given time, because you will dedicate the time Subjissive energy needed to meet their needs. If not, stop. You are his partner, not a slave.
conntrol I want you to spread me open and hold my legs while you're eating me out. Just like with kinky sex IRL, aftercare post-coital time and attention to come down after intense BDSM is a solid practice to engage in while sexting your dom, too. Who knows? I really want you to choke me.
And with one of the above sexts, you're going to need a cool-down after you two go at it. I can't stop thinking about you bending me over and spanking me. In order to create a comfortable atmosphere for the submissive to relax more, the dominant has to be gentle and caring. Examples of submissive rules to follow Because you might be a beginner in the world of a dominant-submissive relationship, I am going to give you some examples and ideas for submissive rules to follow.
I can't wait to get on my knees for you like a good sub. Please climb on top of me and pin me to the mattress. I'm turned on thinking about all the bad things I want you to do to me. I want you to tie me up and lick every part of me.
This is a dual effort and you have to work together to make it pleasant. Ask for permission before you cum No explanation needed. You have to lower your expectations to match the willingness of your partner.